About us
About Older Friends With Benefits: Our Mission
A grown-up site for no strings attached fun, online since 2017.
Fun, friendship and respect
Our mission is simple: to help grown-ups in the UK find a friend with benefits they like, fancy and trust, and to do it with respect and honesty.
A friends with benefits arrangement only works when both people are clear about what they want. So that's how the site is built. Members say what they're after on their profile, talk it through in private messages and meet when it suits them both. Nobody has to pretend they're looking for a wife or a husband, and nobody gets judged for wanting good sex and good company at 50, 60 or beyond.
Online since 2017
Older Friends with Benefits has been online since 2017, and its promise hasn't changed: it's an adult site to help you meet sexy adults in the UK, designed for no strings attached fun.
The site around it has grown up. You'll now find every feature explained, every price in pounds, a full safety page, honest comparisons with Feeld, AdultFriendFinder, Tinder and SilverSingles and guides written for people over 40, 50 and 60.
To maximise your chances of finding success, the member area also includes members with all interests and characteristics, and the search settings let you find exactly who you're looking for.
Made for an older crowd
The name says it, and the members prove it. More than three in four are 45 or over and nearly six in ten are 55 or over. The men here are mostly 55 and older, and the women are mostly aged 35 to 54. Most live in the UK, from Greater London and the Home Counties to Yorkshire, Lancashire and Scotland.
Some are divorced and enjoying their freedom. Some are widowed and ready for closeness again without a new marriage. Others are single by choice, or simply know that what they want right now is a regular lover rather than a partner. If that sounds like you, read about friends with benefits over 50 or over 60.
Who runs the site
Older Friends with Benefits runs on the HubPeople dating platform. It's operated by HubPeople Ireland Limited, based in Dublin, and the service is governed by the laws of Ireland. The terms, privacy policy, cookie policy and anti-slavery policy are linked at the foot of every page.
The support team can be reached at any hour by phone, live chat or ticket, and the platform works to the standards of the Online Dating and Discovery Association, the industry body it's involved with. Questions about whether the site is genuine are answered in full in is Older Friends With Benefits legit?
Eight house rules
Every member agrees to the same rules. They're short, and they're why the site stays a good place to be.
Adults only
The site is strictly for over 18s.
Genuine members only
Real people only, and no selling goods or services to other members.
Be kind
Treat people the way you'd like to be treated, and let someone down gently if they're not your type.
Be tolerant
No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism or hate speech of any kind.
Be safe
Keep early chats on the site, never share bank details and never send money or gift cards.
Be discreet
If you spot a member out and about, only say hello if they've told you it's fine.
Respect boundaries
No means no, and always ask before sending pictures.
Follow the law
Nothing about illegal activity, in messages or in media.
Questions people ask about us
Who owns Older Friends With Benefits?
It runs on the HubPeople dating platform, and the operator is HubPeople Ireland Limited in Dublin.
How long has the site been going?
Since 2017, and the promise is the same as it was then: no strings attached fun for grown-ups in the UK.
Is it only for people over 50?
No. Any adult can join. Most members are 45 or over, which is the point, but younger members who like an older partner are welcome too.
Come and say hello
Set up your profile and see which grown-ups near you want the same thing.
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