Guide
Is There a Friends With Benefits Site for Over 50s?
Yes, and here's how the options compare for people over 50 in the UK.
By Older Friends With Benefits. Facts checked 15 October 2026.
Yes: here are the options
Yes. Older Friends With Benefits is a UK site built for exactly this, with more than three in four members aged 45 or over. Feeld and AdultFriendFinder also welcome friends with benefits but aren't aimed at older people, Tinder is mainstream and mostly under 30, and SilverSingles is for over-50s who want a relationship.
The options side by side
| Service | Built for | The crowd | How you use it |
|---|---|---|---|
| Older Friends With Benefits | A regular friend with benefits | More than three in four members 45 or over | Any web browser |
| Feeld | Curious dating, platonic to FWB and beyond, singles and couples | All ages; most likes go to people aged 28 to 32 | iPhone and Android apps |
| AdultFriendFinder | Friendships, casual dating or intimate relationships | Singles, couples and groups of all ages | Website and mobile web |
| Tinder | Mainstream dating of every kind | Almost 60% aged 18 to 30 | iPhone and Android apps |
| SilverSingles | Companionship, dating or a long-term relationship | Members must be 50 or over | Website and apps |
All five are for adults only. The full side-by-sides are on our comparisons page.
What makes a good friends with benefits site after 50
Casual has to be the point
On relationship sites, a message saying you want something casual can go down badly, because most people there want a partner. A friends with benefits site flips that: no strings is the starting assumption, so you can be honest from the first line.
Your own generation in numbers
Mainstream apps are open to everyone, but most of their users are young. If you're 55 and want someone between 45 and 70, you want a site where that age group is the heart of the membership rather than a small corner of it.
Privacy you can rely on
Look for usernames instead of real names, town-level locations rather than exact ones, easy blocking and blurred explicit images. Older Friends with Benefits does all four, and our safety page explains how.
Checks and straight prices
An ID check that adds a visible badge helps you choose who to meet. Published prices and clear renewal rules tell you a site is genuine. Ours are on our prices page, and we cover the rest in is Older Friends With Benefits legit?
Which option suits whom
Older Friends With Benefits suits singles over 40 who want a regular lover their own age, with nothing to explain. Nearly six in ten members are 55 or over.
Feeld suits couples and people who want to explore non-monogamy, kink or more than one kind of connection. Older Friends With Benefits vs Feeld goes deeper.
AdultFriendFinder suits people who want cams, chat rooms and group fun alongside meeting. See the full comparison.
Tinder suits anyone who's open to anything and enjoys swiping through a big, young crowd. Read how it compares after 50.
SilverSingles suits over-50s hoping for a long-term partner. Our SilverSingles comparison explains the difference.
Site or app?
Most mainstream dating happens in apps. Older Friends with Benefits runs in any web browser instead, which has real advantages later in life: you can read profiles on a laptop or tablet with a bigger screen, nothing has to be downloaded or kept updated, and nothing sits on your phone's home screen unless you put it there. On a phone it works just as well, and you can add it to your home screen in a few taps if you'd like it to open like an app.
Ready to start? Our guides to finding a friend with benefits over 50 and writing a profile that works will help.
Friends with benefits sites for over 50s
Is there a friends with benefits site for over 50s?
Yes. Older Friends With Benefits is a UK site for no strings arrangements between grown-ups, and more than three in four of its members are 45 or over.
What are the best casual dating sites for over 50s in the UK?
That depends on what you want. For a regular friend with benefits your own age, Older Friends With Benefits. For couples and exploring, Feeld. For cams and group fun, AdultFriendFinder. For a relationship, SilverSingles.
Is there a casual dating app for over 50s?
Older Friends With Benefits works on any phone through the browser and can sit on your home screen like an app. Feeld and Tinder are apps, but their crowds are much younger.
Is SilverSingles good for friends with benefits?
It's built for companionship, dating and long-term relationships, so most members there are looking for a partner rather than a no strings arrangement.
Are friends with benefits sites safe for older people?
A good one gives you usernames, town-only locations, blocking, ID badges and screening. Add your own habits: chat on the site first, meet in public and never send money.